Right now, as you read this sentence, you know how to change your life.
You know it without the aid of a prayer, a book, a counselor, a how-to guide or wise advice from a friend. They can all be useful. Sometimes their words spark something in you that you needed, but it’s a reawakening – a remembering of your own power.
Because if you’re honest with yourself, you know what to do.
Marianne Williamson said; “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” She’s often right.
Even as we aspire to our greatness we have a habit of putting it in others hands. Maybe it has been schooled out of us by an education system that taught us to accept truth as prescribed, to wait for instructions before moving forward.
It could be a culture of marketing, convincing us we need everything from useless kitchen items to life’s step-by-step to succeed.
Maybe it’s our family or friends, passing on their own doubts or fuelling the ones we already had.
Perhaps we’ve just gotten used to looking out instead of in.
It doesn’t matter why though does it? Because it’s really just about taking our power back.
Try this experiment; think about an area of your life you’d like to improve. It could be work, love or family. It might be a lifelong goal or an emotional habit. You might want to conquer Everest or stop sneaking chocolate at night.
Now ask yourself one step you could take towards changing it.
You got it, didn’t you? Your subconscious didn’t even hesitate.
See the thing is, we don’t need to know every step before us. We need to know one. We need to stop over-thinking that first step and act on instinct – our instinct. The next step will come.
We’ve convinced ourselves of the enormity of change. The reality is that a friendship can be nurtured with a phonecall, a relationship improved with a lingering hug, a weight loss journey begun with one choice. It might be as simple as taking a deep breath when your kids make you flustered, or picking up an industry magazine for the career that inspires you. The results of change can be enormous – but the doing should be organic. It’s just about getting out of our own way.
“But if I know what to do, and I don’t always do it, what does that make me?” Human. It’s ok not to be perfect right now. It’s ok not to act on every inspired thought or idea – but don’t give them away, don’t make them harder.
Enjoy your books, exchange advice with your friends, see a counselor or make a plan – if it helps you, do it.
Just come from that place of ease, because in this moment and in any other – you know what to do.
Copyright Nirvana Dawson 2012